Parenting by Warisha

Parenting

Introduction

Good parenting is more crucial than a good school as for a child his first school is his house. Parenting is one of the most difficult task in this world. Being parent comes with a lot of responsibilities and difficult decision making. There are several parenting style, those styles can be good or bad and this will have any effect on the child either a positive or negative one. Every child is unique and require a different style of upbringing. To understand every child same is the biggest mistake usually people do. Good parenting always lead to the development of child and give leaders to the world. The first seven years of a child, the brain is in consciousness so the first seven years are foundational to the goals and limitations and they are being programmed for the first seven years, and that 95% of the results in the life come from that programming of the subconscious that is the reason why parenting should be healthy for a child for his upcoming life.

2 Styles of parenting

There are two styles of parenting I have seen in my life, the one is high warmth and high control we can call that involved parenting and the other is low control and low warmth we can call that uninvolved parenting. Both are entirely different from each other. One difference is that involved parenting includes consistent limits and parents give reasonable demands unlike the uninvolved parenting, the parents are in different, uninvolved and sometimes neglectful. Another difference is that the involved parents expresses warmed and affection and listens to the child's point of view whereas the uninvolved parents, the parents does not response to the child's need and makes very few demands, they're emotionally distant from their children.

Outcomes

The involved parents leads to the best outcomes for their children in contrast to the uninvolved ones. The parents who involved with their children, their children have high self esteem, great social skills and they are good in school while the children's that are brought up by uninvolved parents are emotionally withdrawn, fearful anxious and who perform poorly in school. Conversely, there are no kudos and bravos for the children who brought up by uninvolved parents.

Conclusion

There are numerous dissimilaritues between both styles of parenting but one similarity that both the parents love their child and want them to become a better person of this world. Parents shouldn't be the extremist in both case. In my opinion let the children from one year to 5 years to do as they want, do not put any strictness. From 5 to 12 punish on their mistakes and reward on good deeds and from 12 to further be as a friend.

ABOUT AUTHOR

Warisha
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